I was going through doomsday scrolling on X when I landed on that story. The story was about mates who had met for a pint every Thursday for the last 56 years. I was incensed. Not that I hated those mates. But I had witnessed and been part of these kind of stories. It was a lived experience for me.
I will start with one of my beautiful mothers in Luwafu. Her Kabalaaza group has consistently met for the last 30 years. They each know the other’s drinking limits; they have been involved in each other’s highs and lows. The social capital they built within themselves is imaginable. Yet, time has gone on dealing them. There have been deaths and sicknesses. But there have also been wins. From the opportunities they spread among each other, the internships and jobs that were landed on the Kabalaaza but above all, the therapy.
The idea was simple; ‘you will never walk alone.’ And for the last 30 years, they have walked as one. Wueh. Now tell me which bond investment could ever beat this social investment. I guess, this is built on the good Buganda principle ‘Munno Mukabi ye munno ddala.’
You see, I have been told that to make it in the Executive Circles, I must find myself onto a golf course. I must belong to that Kampala Club or at least subscribe to one of the country clubs in the country. I have been told about the need to attend networking events. All my life, when people have given me advice, I have gone ahead to do the contrary. And it works. Because if everyone already knows the right way, there is a high chance it is not the right way.
This brings me to the Decadenian Group of Luzira. In my life, I have been known to break protocol. I have found myself in rooms where I was either the youngest or least experienced, but I was in the room. And that is how I joined the Decadenians. Employees of some organisation that had clocked 10 years decided that I deserved to be part of this group. I was hardly two years in service.
Occasionally, these Decadenians would catch up for a pint on Fridays until someone introduced the Kikalayi. Now these chaps had even promised to start a Kikalayi podcast. Because some of the best business ideas are produced around Kikalayi. The economy is discussed around Kikalayi. These Decadenians would give Financial Times, New York Times, Harvard Business Review and Bloomberg a run for their money.